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Rupert Everett sparks outrage with gay parenting comments

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British actor Rupert Everett has come under fire after declaring he "can't think of anything worse" than a gay couple raising a child.

The openly gay star has been criticised by equality campaigners after insisting that "children need a father and a mother."

In an interview with Britain's Sunday Times Magazine, Everett revealed how his mother Sara McLean Everett had met his boyfriend but "still wishes I had a wife and kids."

He added, "She thinks children need a father and a mother and I agree with her. I can't think of anything worse than being brought up by two gay dads. Some people might not agree with that. Fine! That's just my opinion. I'm not speaking on behalf of the gay community. In fact, I don't feel like I'm part of any 'community'. The only community I belong to is humanity and we've got too many children on the planet, so it's good not to have more."

Gay rights advocates have taken exception to Everett's comments - Ben Summerskill, chief executive of gay rights group Stonewall, says, "Rupert should get out a little bit more to see the facts for himself. There is absolutely no evidence that the kids of gay parents suffer in the way they are being brought up or in how they develop."

Everett's mother also told the publication she wished her son would start a family, insisting, "I'd like him to have children. He's so good with children. He'd make a wonderful father. But I also think a child needs a mummy and a daddy. I've told him that and he takes it very well. He doesn't get angry with me. He just smiles."

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Sep 18, 2012 12:04AM
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Before this article, I'd never heard of Mr. Everett.  Although, I don't know much about him, I have a great deal of respect for him.  I always respect people that say how they honestly feel and not what others want them to say.  I also like the fact that he stated, that he didn't think of himself as part of a homosexual community.  He is what he is, it is his personal choice, it is his private life, and not something that affects the "homosexual community", or needs its support. (My interpretation)

 

There are many situations where a child cannot be raised by a Mother and a Father, through no fault of the single parent.  This being said, there is no disputing that the ideal home would be one where a child has both a Mother and a Father, in it.  It is ridiculous for anyone to say different.  I'm not talking about the exception, like abusive homes or ones void of respect and support.  If you ask any child from a single family home, they will tell you they wished they had both.  Homosexuality / Same Sex relationships bring its own obstacles and problems, confusion & embarrassment being just a couple. 

 

Males and females are so different.  They each have very important qualities that a child needs.  A Man cannot teach a girl how to be a woman and a Woman cannot teach a boy how to be a Man.

 

Most homosexuals will take this as a personal attack.  It is not an attack.  Mr. Everett knows this and is honest.  He is not trying to advance any position.  He is not trying to be politically correct.  He is simple stating what everyone knows to be true but don't want to say it.  This is not say that homosexuals can't be loving and valuable to a child’s life but that it is not the best situation, when there is the option of an ideal / perfect family...A loving Mother and Father.

 

*Mr Everett, you are a breath of fresh air...Good Job!

Sep 17, 2012 2:01PM
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Studies challenge established views development of children raised by gay or lesbian parents June 10, 2012 Despite considerable research showing that children of same-sex parents fare just as well as children with heterosexual parents, two papers - a review of existing studies and a new study - published today in Elsevier's Social Science Research, find insufficient data to draw any definitive conclusions. The review by Dr. Loren Marks from Louisiana State University finds that much of the science that forms the basis for the highly regarded 2005 official brief on same-sex parenting by the American Psychological Association (APA) (http://www.apa.org/pi/lgbt/resources/parenting-full.pdf) does not stand up to scrutiny. The new study by University of Texas sociologist and professor Mark Regnerus, provides compelling new evidence that numerous differences in social and emotional well-being do exist between young adults raised by women who have had a lesbian relationship and those who have grown up in a nuclear family. Dr. Marks reviewed studies published between 1980 and 2005 cited by the 2005 official APA brief which asserted that: "Not a single study has found children of lesbian or gay parents to be disadvantaged in any significant respect relative to children of heterosexual parents." "The jury is still out on whether being raised by same-sex parents disadvantages children", explains Marks. "However, the available data on which the APA draws its conclusions, derived primarily from small convenience samples, are insufficient to support a strong generalized claim either way." Of the 59 studies referenced in the APA brief, more than three-quarters were based on small, non-representative, non-random samples that did not include any minority individuals or families; nearly half lacked a heterosexual comparison group; and few examined outcomes that extend beyond childhood such as intergenerational poverty, educational attainment, and criminality, which are a key focus of studies on children of divorce, remarriage, and cohabitation. In other words, "A lack of high quality data leaves the most significant questions unaddressed and unanswered," concludes Marks. In his study, Professor Mark Regnerus used data from the New Family Structures Study (NFSS) (http://www.prc.utexas.edu/nfss/), a large nationally representative sample of just under 3,000 young Americans aged 18 to 39, to compare how children raised in eight different family structures fared on 40 social, emotional, and relationship outcomes. google_protectAndRun("render_ads.js::google_render_ad", google_handleError, google_render_ad);

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Sep 18, 2012 9:57PM
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Why can't anyone voice their opinon anymore? What is life scripted into one partyline and if you deter from the script you are shunned? It happens that he is gay but he still got lambasted. What if a non-gay person said that? An opinion is just that, and it's everyone's right to say what they think.

 

I personally think two gay parents would be much better than one single parent dating a variety of people and maybe not having the finances that two gay men would have.

 

I'm a middle aged grandmother but have been a very broke single mother of two in my younger years. It sucks!

Sep 18, 2012 5:11PM
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I can't think of anything worse than his horrid plastic surgery.
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